So I have learnt a couple lessons this year. The first is this, the sooner you get over a broken relationship, the sooner you will realize that you deserve more. This to me seemed like a pretty obvious statement until I gave it some serious thought...
You see the problem is that even years after a relationship I find myself wondering, what if things had gone differently? What if we tried again now? Should I have given him a second chance?? The answers are irrelevant, the problem is that I am actually asking these questions when really I shouldn't be.
A relationship that has ended, ended for a reason, yes? If he cheated on you once, he'll do it again. If he left you stranded, he'll do it again. If his mother hated you, she hasn’t changed her mind! It all comes down to one rather harsh reality; People DO NOT change.
So here comes the epiphany; a song’s ending does not change just because you play it in a different key. The ending may sound slightly different, but it is still the same melody!
The sooner we realize that we can’t change the past the sooner we can realize that what matters, is right now.
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